a few minor details

today i am 30 and have never been more at peace on a birthday.  i'm also not hungover and/or extremely tired from waiting tables the previous night.  which is a new one for me.  despite a few minor details i have everything i imagined having when i turned 30.  my son is beautiful, smart, & healthy.  my soon to be hubby is loving, supportive, and kind. they are everything i never knew i wanted, but did.  my brother and his family, my parents, my aunts, uncles, and cousins are all a huge part of my life.  i have old friends and new friends that are truly great people.  the last 3 years have been life changing and improving. 
my 20's were a hell of a ride.  as i progressed into my late 20's i started to figure things out.  you know, like i didn't have to date a-holes. i will be hungover if i have thirty glasses of wine.  sleep is not overrated.  organizations and systems are helpful, but meant to be flexible.  my mom was right about over drinking affecting you more after 25.  my dad was right about getting a good job. 
would i feel so at peace if i didn't have mike and hendrix in my life?  who knows and who cares.  i do have them in my life and our life has been pretty eventful ride.  i'm glad to have some company.