Friday, February 10, 2012

party on with your (3 year old) self

construction crayons found here
lest you think it is serious around here all the time...we do party from time to time.  and boy! do we have a party coming...

hendrix is coming up on THREE...holy effing smokes.  and we all know his momma loves to plan a party (and that his daddy hates parties. but haters are my motivators), so here is the lowdown on hendrix's par-tay.
BE A BUILDER is the theme.
hendrix loves all things about building, farming, and landscaping.  he can name all construction vehicles on sight.  he peruses the stihl catalog every night before bed.  take him to a john deere dealership and he knows exactly what everything is, parked on their lot.  at menards he needs to check out the saws and lawnmowers.  yesterday, he told me he wanted to be a weed whacker when he grew up.  today he wants to be a cement truck driver when he grows up. you get the picture.  soooooooo....the party hats are hard hats.  the games will be pinata demolition and tower building.  the cake topper is a bulldozer.  blueprints are the decor. rulers, pencils, graph paper, and construction shaped crayons are the party favors. we will "construct" our own bird feeders. why? because if you build it...they will come.
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in other news....
this sunday is another "Go Big for Casey" Sunday Fun Day.  this one will be held at the dundee dell, with 25% of ALL food/drink sales made between 11am-1am going to support Casey K.

next week, i will talk more about making gardening and cooking accessible and fun for everyone.  i also tell you about my day at the heart ministry center and the day i have planned there on the 21st. hint: i need your help and recipes. and i will talk about my cheap ass ways. not whore/cheap ass. moneysaving/cheap ass.

and, last but not least, HAPPY CAKE!! to jackson. go blow up some candles, dude.

Thursday, February 9, 2012

food is food is food

pretty sure we can all agree that food is a basic human need, right? i think the confusion comes when we all are trying to figure out what kind of food people in need deserve or really need. i come from the school of thought that basic pantry staples, fresh produce, and proteins should be available to everyone. also realizing that if you are homeless, a sandwich or pop-top style can of soup may be the way to go. however, i am also pretty sure that if you are the working poor-person in need shopping at one of the biggest pantries in town that you would appreciate arugula donated by one of the biggest grocery stores in the nation or the lump crab meat or the saffron donated by another donor. all this along with the rice, pasta, canned tomato sauce, tortillas, eggs, and ground beef. what? are you in disbelief that there is arugula at a food pantry? why? since when did certain food become too good for others. and why? anyone could grow arugula in a pot for less than $5 and have it to harvest for most of the spring and fall. in the summer they could plant some heat-tolerant lettuce or put up a shade. so why is some food reserved for the people who can "appreciate" its' flavor? because it should not be.
the school of thought where basic pantry staples, fresh (or frozen) produce, and proteins should be available at a food pantry comes from the belief and knowledge that this is the healthiest, cheapest, most efficient way for people to feed themselves. just as the ability to cook for yourself is, often times, the healthiest, the cheapest, most efficient way to eat. sure it takes some planning and knowledge...but like anything, i suppose, you have to want to do it. and more and more, i believe people do. i just think a lot of people are completely alienated and have been led to believe that they can't. just as the food network and celebrity chefs have somehow convinced people that cooking is hard...foodies have made gardening seem like a magical thing only hippies can pull off.
i say anyone can grow food because they can. my son, two at the time, was growing spicy mesculan greens in an old wine box last year. i am not saying anyone can grow food on a large scale because they can't...but pretty much anyone can get some pots or buckets or barrels, fill it with dirt, put some seed or starter plants in the dirt...and voila! you can have some fresh, local produce. sure you will have to water it, but the maintenance on container gardening is practically zilch compared to tilled plots in your yard. and not everyone has a yard. some people have a patio, stoop, or tiny, sunny spot by their parking space. regardless, anyone can grow food. in container gardening, a person would have to spend about 30 mins total a week weeding and watering. tops. while, you can't grow melons or squash/pumpkins very well in a container pretty much anything else goes. so why do people wait in line at the farmer's market for 20 minutes to pay $10/lb. for greens? who knows? but i am starting to think all this local food movement business is becoming a little too out of reach for the average "2 parents working" family trying to make healthy changes, the working poor folks, the single parent, or even the hipster college student. the real movement should lie in helping people grow and prepare their own food. not in villainizing every single thing that who knows who decides is not good enough for human consumption because when we do that we alienate a huge group of people who could really benefit from a true local food movement. food elitists are alienating to a large group of people who don't feel like they know enough or care enough about food, but want to make better choices. people who don't feel like they have enough time to shop local and cook. we should be helping everyone be their own grower, their own cook because when we empower people with this knowledge they will make better choices for themselves, their families, their community, their local economy, their environment. this is the way to make having a garden and eating dinner as a family the norm. for everyone.
farmer's markets are great because they give us access to growers and their delicious food. local food is wonderful because it tastes better, often has a higher nutritional content, creates jobs, keeps dollars in our community, and the list goes on. but not everyone can get to a farmer's market to buy local food. most folks have bigger issues happening then worrying about how to afford veggies or knowing where the eff the veggie came from. and when people throw out phrases like food desert and sustainable in the same breath...there is no problem miraculously solved. there is just a whole other group of people alienated. that doesn't mean folks don't want fresh, local produce or don't want to learn how to grow and/or prepare them. it just means it has been made to seem so unattainable and in a lot of ways it IS. so i am over it. i want to figure out ways to bring the local food movement to all of the people in our community. the families who want to grow a garden, but don't feel like they have time. the single parents who can't imagine adding one more thing to their "to-do" lists. the busy couple who only eats in 3 times a week, loves veggies, but never makes it to the markets. i want to do this in a variety of ways including aiding people in being their own grower and their own chef. there is an immense pride and empowerment that comes with picking your own sweet pepper and serving stuffed peppers for dinner. all in the same day. and along with it, eventually, a preference and appreciation for the home grown, home cooked food.
let us rise up and grow something. let us cook something. let us stop being food snobs. let us just let food be what it is...food. and everyone has the right to food. everyone can grow something. they just need guidance.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

i heart valentine's day

i've always liked valentine's day.  even when i was single.  there is something so sweet and simple about the holiday...if you don't get caught up in the $$hullabaloo$$ of it all.  hendrix and i are going to make valentines this week.  we went with a non-candy option...BUBBLES.  they sell those tiny, party size ones everywhere...i got 24 for $3.  just enough for his classmates.  we are also going to make sun catcher valentines for his teachers and grandparents. 
here are some cute non-candy options for you to explore:
popcorn
ball
suncatcher
fruit
bugs
madlibs
at this point in my life, i think my favorite kind of valentine's is spent with both the men in my life.  and the food.  i like a holiday with food....breakfast will include heart shaped eggs in toast and floating hearts in our milk. (or iced coffee in my case) dinner is venison steak with bleu cheese sauce, crash hot potatoes, and roasted broccoli. and CHOCOLATE MOUSSE PIE.
i know it is cheesy. don't hate me. chances are someone will get sick and i'll scrap the whole thing. ha!

Monday, February 6, 2012

housekeepng

did you all survive the snow? better yet, did you enjoy it? i hope so.  we all had a great weekend.  lots of baking, sledding, cooking, and eating.  hendrix and i also did some craft projects together, but have yet to get to coloring a shirt.  i can save that for this week if it is too cold or boredom hits. 
hendrix also decided what HE will be planting in HIS garden.  he chose...carrots, peas, lettuce strawberries, sweet peppers, and marigolds.  some of his favorite things.  he will be entirely in charge of his little garden.  more on this later.
i did a lot of thinking about my garden, as well, and am considering moving more things to my container garden.  i hope to be growing a baby this summer and know that the container garden will be much less work and just as fruitful.
however, this week is all about making final decisions on what non-candy valentine hendrix is going to bring to school, mailing birthday invites, making seed orders, and continuing the organization battle i waged last week on my house. 
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please check these two facebook pages out:
GO BIG FOR CASEY Sunday Fun Days...if you are a midtowner or have ever been to the Dell then you know casey, go have fun on a sunday and help a great guy.
HEART MINISTRY CENTER ...they're on facebook! now you can be updated on their awesome activity and find ways to help. 
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i'm off to get this week started off right by drinking the rest of my latte.  i'll be back soon to talk about cute non-candy valentine options, valentine menu ideas for families, hendrix's big #3 party, CONTAINER gardening, and ways EVERYONE (anywhere) can grow food this year.

Friday, February 3, 2012

planning to be snowed in

photo: design mom
ever since the winter of '09 we have gotten real good at planning to be snowed in...even if we, ourselves, can get the drive plowed that doesn't necessarily mean that the county will come plow the road.  being that there are only three houses on this road for three miles and no businesses. 
sooooo...i always make sure to have plenty of food, milk, booze, diapers, and projects.  although, my whole house is one giant project so that isn't too hard.  and mike just plans on moving snow. secretly, i love being snowed in...except in 2009.  i did not love that because hendrix was 9 months old and had a fever of 103. scary stuff.
this weekend i am all stocked up.  here's what we will be doing to keep warm and busy....
we hope you all enjoy the snow this weekend. check back here next week for ideas on container gardening, ways to be involved in the local food movement, and to hear about hendrix's birthday party theme. here's a clue: build.

Thursday, February 2, 2012

winter weekend

word on the street is there is going to be snow this weekend.  which is a good thing since it is taking everything in my power to not plant greens in my food garden.  i have found myself having gardening talk with everyone this week.  i desperately need spring to be here, but i also find myself wanting some snow too.  so in the spirit of snow...here is an easy recipe for you to try this weekend:

grated veggie soup (from time for dinner)
4 c. chicken broth, veg broth, or water
2 cups grated veg of choice (i often use onion, carrot, celery, and some greens)
2 T. cream of wheat or grits
2T. olive oil
S&P
parmesan cheese
bring broth to a boil.  stir in veggies and return a boil.  reduce heat, stir in olive oil and grits or cream of wheat...continue to simmer and stir occasionally until soup thickens.  season well and serve with parmesan on top. enjoy!

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

soon-to-be three

hendrix has become a full fledged nose picker.  he is obsessed with tractors, tools, trucks, all things boy.  anything his father does...he does too. or better if you listen to his stories.  this is the time of year that i always start getting sick to my stomach with nostalgia.  hendrix's bff, jackson, has a birthday 1 month before hendrix's birthday and it always leaves me stunned that these boys are turning another year older.  hendrix is more and more of a little boy and less and less of a toddler every day.  it is heartbreaking and beautiful at the same time.  my brother once said that one of the greatest and worst things about having children is watching them grow up.  i love the nose picking, but i miss the blue, bulb syringe too.  isn't that gross?  only a mother....